Day 5: The cure for “we should hang out sometime”

You’ve been showing up all week. Now it’s time to lock something in.

Not a someday. Not a “we should hang soon.” A real thing. With one real friend. On the calendar.

🏀 Today’s Move: Pick someone and send a version of this:

“Let’s lock in coffee or a beer. Tuesday or Wednesday work for you?” “Quick walk this weekend? I need air and a real human conversation.” “I’ve got dibs on one day this month. What’s actually open on your end?” “Let’s book something before we ghost each other for another six months.”

Want to make it stick? Offer a day and time. That’s what turns an idea into a plan.

Why it works: Most friendships don’t fade from drama. They fade from “sometime” disease. This one move puts you back in motion together.

See you tomorrow. – Matt, The Friendship Guy 👊

P.S. One plan can restart everything. Doesn’t have to be epic. Just has to be real.