Day 2: Try this question and watch what happens 👀

You showed up yesterday. That matters.

Today, we go one click deeper, without making it weird.

Here’s the truth: The easiest way to reopen a friendship isn’t “How’ve you been?” It’s:

“Got anything fun coming up?” Or: “What’s on the horizon for you?” Or even: “Anything good on the calendar?”

People light up when you ask about what’s next. You’re not dragging them into a life update. You’re giving them permission to be excited about something.

And sometimes… that excitement includes you.

Quick story: I sent that exact text to a friend I hadn’t seen in ages… What happened next? Totally reset our friendship and landed me somewhere I didn’t expect.

Most people miss this bonus video, but here's how this move actually played out in my life in ​30-second video​.

🏀 Today’s Move: Text one of those questions to someone you want to reconnect with. Pick the one that sounds like you.

Then...and this is the important part...follow up. If they say “Not really,” say:

“We gotta fix that.” Or “Let’s change that.”

That’s not small talk. That’s you showing up in a world where most people scroll past.

See you tomorrow. You’re doing this. – Matt, The Friendship Guy 👊